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We all go through an institution in some phase of our lives. In the beginning phase we go through schooling. Then it is followed by college. Then come further higher studies. These institutions have the same process. Giving us a good learning experience. Through every institution is different from one another, they make the person experienced enough to understand life better.
Marriage is also an institution where two people come together and vow to spend their lives together for the coming years. The concept of matrimony has been made to make two of them to understand each other better and remain with each other in sickness and in health.
Though marriage ceremony is performed in different manners, all of them have the same concept. However marriages are not successful as they were once. The initial phases of life seem like a dream for the couple where they live, eat, sleep together. They glorify and enjoy each other’s presence. However, the coming of a new member i.e. a baby seems to take a toll on their married life. The couple seems to make priorities. The wife soon becomes a mother and the father seems like a providing member of the family and nothing else. Both the husband and wife hardly get any time to come close together. Another factor that detours their relationship is extended working hours. As the cost of living is rising each day, the couple find themselves in thick position to run their households through single income. Therefore the woman of the house tends to climb the corporate ladder and bring some dough in the house. Her devotion towards work and family takes a toll on the married life which is thriving for a commitment through good communication.
Communication can only be empowered if the couple sit down and talk, but since time is a big constraint misunderstandings crop up that lead to quarrel and sleepless nights.
This might even lead to disastrous things like a divorce.
However difficult it might seem, the couple should spend quality time with one another. Bringing back the romance that once had sparked chemistry must soon be brought back. A few of these guidelines can be worked upon to bring back the romance in the institution of marriage.
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