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Hi Guys!!
I am sure, we all worked &
buttered on our child’s “self esteem”, and I also hope we continue to pour
the right information into them as they are considered empty vessels.
Today I would like to pen my
views on “Discipline”. So, let’s try on the path & positive approach
towards it………. & I believe.
Discipline is a way to teach
your child the “ropes” of life. We must remember that our kids aren’t going
to be “good” all the time. Disciplining your child is all about setting
rules, we have to lay down these rules & teach them the facts of life. They
will try to get you to bend them but remember if you told there will be
plenty of other times when your child will want to bend the rules again. Be
consistent so that the rules you set are followed ___________ by saying
“No”, by keeping promises, by training & guiding them, monitoring their
activities, providing boundaries and guideline giving them incentives,
rewards, praises etc, etc ______ They always learn faster by imitating the
expert ________ that is “You”. So be the expert in your child’s life.
When our children are babies
we hate to displease them & try our best to make them laugh & smile. It can
be heart breaking to see our child’s lower tip turn down & watch his entire
body shake with sobs…………when they are denied what they want……… But, if we
want to raise our children to understand the meaning of the word “No” we
must start from the very beginning, maintaining a firm stance which shows
them that we mean business & would not buckle down no matter how adorable or
sad our little one’s face may be, It is important f | |